A Personal Note to Parents from Rob Jackson

We live in a difficult age, don't we? Our children are often exposed to things that challenge their character development and overall wellness. 

When I entered this specialization in 1994, pornography was a "men's issue." As the Internet became more available I saw that it could also entrap women. Now, as I write this at the close of 2004, I routinely treat adolescents who have fallen into the snare of Internet pornography. 

Sadly, adolescents are among the most difficult clients to treat. Frankly, they haven't lost marriages, careers, and a host of other things to their emerging addictions. Yet, their need for help is perhaps even more important, since they're in an season of crucial psycho-sexual development. 

If you're son or daughter is in trouble with Internet pornography or other sexual behaviors, there won't be a quick fix. However, there is much that we can accomplish if we work together. 

I encourage you to consider the following:

• Write down your concerns on paper. What evidence do you have that your child is in trouble? What changes have you seen in their disposition or peer group? Be sure to journal events where you have to confront your child. For example, journal the date and time, what happened, and how your child responded to your intervention. 

• Read my recovery articles. Be sure to take note of the "parents' section.

• Write down your questions and give me a toll free call at (888) 891-HOPE (4673). 

Blessings,

Rob Jackson
Licensed Professional Counselor
Licensed Mental Health Counselor
National Certified Counselor