A Personal Note to Pastors from Rob Jackson - 

Through the years of service to churches and pastors, I've come to appreciate the load you carry. I recognize that the pastor's role is multivaried, and can change with each individual's need.

Most pastors I've met report several things in common:

(1) In spite of their concerns for a parishioner, they can typically  "counsel" with someone only about three or four times before they have to make a referral.  I've heard, and believe, that pastors are capable of counseling to the church body from the pulpit, so that preaching and teaching of God's Word remains their primary calling.

(2) They realize the needs presented by families impacted by sexual trauma and/or addiction are legion in their complexities. Beyond the time restraints produced by pastoral demands, seminary training has not typically prepared the pastor to resolve trauma related, compulsive issues. 

(3) The issue of sexuality poses significant liabilities to the pastor and church.

(4) Most pastors lack the high degree of accountability and support staff to safely provide counseling services to adolescents of the opposite sex.  

On the other hand, many pastors have indicated how difficult it is to find a mental health professional or agency they trust. I've heard and recognize the following concerns:

(1) The success of the referral is a reflection on me and an extension of my pastoral care. Therefore I have to be confident that the teaching and therapy will be consistent with our common faith and traditions.

(2) I don't want to see this family divided by a therapist who recommends separation or divorce as a first option.

With these needs and concerns in mind, I want to assure you that I am personally committed to serving you and your church as needs present themselves. My mission includes a strong commitment to work with churches so that a large community of wounded people can find spiritual and psychological rest in a personal, relevant relationship with Christ. Frankly, I'm aware of how much ministries like mine need the input and help of local churches. It's my prayer that we can work together to restore individuals and families to the glory of God.

I trust you will feel free to contact me at 888.891.HOPE. Let's support one another in the cause of Christ.

Blessings,

Rob Jackson
Licensed Professional Counselor
Licensed Mental Health Counselor
National Certified Counselor